Okiez... Finally got the mood and time to blog liao....~~

WEDNESDAY
Left office @ 1pm... rushed to SGH.. end up wait till 5+pm den the doctors came to attend to FIL... -faint!- waste my half day leave loh!!! doctors said FIL tumor looks good! As in it's only at the first or second stage only! and it hasn't spread yet!!! OMG! Such a relief that i nearly cried out because too happy liao! after the doctors left, FIL's dinner was being served...FIL did nto eat it as he doesn't have any appetite (I believe most patient dun enjoy eating hospital food.) But to mi the hospital food taste not bad leh! keke.. ANd FIL did not touch the food at all, and i think it's so wasted, so i whopped half of it... keke... And Xue Li and MIL they all keep laugh at me, cuz i keep saying wanted to diet, but still eat and eat when we just had our meal at around 2+pm.. haha... and I stand there eat also si beh paiseh loh.. keke.... And uncles and aunties came over to visit him, and we left at 8+pm...

THURSDAY
My Manager just came back from her Japan trip, and she got me a lovely Minnie Mouse bag from Disney Tokyo, Love it so much!!

after knock off went to SGH.... And FIL is still dun look good.. As his giddy is still quite bad that he need someone to hold him when he go to the gents... We left at about 9+pm.. And we keep telling FIL that if he need go to the Gents press the Nurse call to get the nurse bring him to... But we all know FIL dun like to bother people... SO we "told him we going home liao" but stand far to "observe" him see whether did he call the nurse for toilet break as he drunk the "泄药水" to let him clear everything before he go for operation the next day.... I stand there for 30mins+ but still did not see him coming out, so we decided to go home... reach home around 10+pm... So we all bath with the "花水" to clean ourself as thursday was 初八. Hokkiens will need to pay offerings to 天公. And to pray 天公 have to wait till 12am (means 初九 00:00) so we all help out MIL to get everything prepared and wait the clock to struck 00:00.... den we pray... and after finish we went downstair to burn the "gim zhua" and alot people was also doing that! And I reli think west area alot of hokkiens... cuz to what I know only hokkiens pay offerings to 天公 on 初一 and 初九. Cuz my house we did not do that on 初一 and 初九... and after everything it's about 2am... and I'm reli dead beat!!! KO at about 3am... Zzzz

It's Valentines' Day but we couldn't celebrate. No, should say we spent Valentines' Day at hospital.. haha! But hubby got me a pair of lovely earrings! I love it so much! It's been YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYEARS that hubby bought me any presents for Valentines' Day! As I was bored as hubby was busying playing DOTA after reach home, So i took Movie tickets out to tidy. As I have the habit of collecting movie tickets... So i sort out the tickets that I have watch with hubby for this 4 Years and coming 8 months..... total 74 Movies! haha.. ANd also a receipt that we first celebrated Valentines' Day together at Cine's Sakae Sushi and a KBOX receipt, that's the 1st time we went KBOX - Just the two of us... hehe... And all the sweet memories started to flash back....

Now then I know I'm such a Sentimental ger! haha...

FRIDAY
Took a day leave off... From what i heard from Yong that FIL's operation is being arrange at 12pm... So we left the house at 10.30+am... And reach SGH around 11+am... But FIL was not at his bed... He being pushed to operation Threater liao.. So we go to operation threatre to wait for him... And saw FIL's "neighbour" (patients's relative next to FIL's bed) and she told us FIL was being bring in around 10+am.. and MIL started to nag at yong of his "tua"... and that auntie even told MIL that early morning nurse (cuz that auntie reach SGH at 7am++ as her husband is also going for operation that morning.) ask FIL to go and bath, but FIL said he wanted to wait for MIL come and bath for him... But when we reach he's not there liao... And could tell MIL very sad and teared as she couldn't get to see FIL before he go for operation... and we all were so nervous that whenever the operation threatre door open, and we look into it, but still did not see him... we reli so nervous loh! that we kindna abit gan jiong that hubby and MIL went in to ask if FIL operation has finsih already... and at 1.30pm the nurse told us he has finished his operation and was being pushed to recovery room. and we saw DR.Lim- FIL's main doctor. So i told MIL, since DR.Lim has came out and did not have a word with us, so I assume operation is very successful and letting the "small doctors" doing the stiching... So hubby went in and ask the nurse ,they said they are already doing the stiching now so will be out roughly another 1 hour time... Phew~ Finally relief alittle... and we wait n wait..... finally at 3.30pm FIL is being pushed out!!... But he's simply too weak to talk ... and the whole day FIL keep on sleep and sleep, but sometimes got open eyes.. CUz the 麻醉药 havent 退... And there's once when I went in he just open his eyes.... So i asked him is it very pain? and he nodded his head and said ya, very pain... den i asked him to rest and i went out, and I cried.... Cuz it really heart pain to see him suffer all these.... And before we left, I wrote him a note :

爸爸，我们永远爱你 ! 加油!
Carine 阿伟老婆

KO at 4+am... Zzzz And hubby and yong came back from Wei Qiang's in the morning as they went to play Black Jack... And I wanted to edit my blogskin, so didn't went over...

TODAY
woke up at 11am, went to 300+ there to pack breakfast for hubby and Yong. And also bought coconut for three of us (yong, Hubby and mi) as we are now all very "heaty". I'm so heaty till I couldn't open my mouth big whenever I eat, trying to open my mouth big my jaws hurt! And also run some errands for MIL... Phew~ carrying 2 big coconuts is no joke! Phew~ finally reach home, and Yong woke up and finished up the breakfast and coconut drink and went over to SGH as MIL had already go over in the morning and she wanted us to packed food for her, so yong went over 1st just in case MIL was too famished... And I dun dare to wake hubby up, cuz when he's feeling tired will fed up easily... (just like any other kids!) haha... and around 2pm hubby woke up finished eating and we cabbed over to SGH... and FIL is still the same, feeling weak and did not reli talk.. So we sat outside and eventually hubby and I dozed off! simply too tired liao... hehe....

Hmmm...today they are having the BlackJack session again at WeiQiang's house, but hubby ask mi not to go, as he say they all play is $5 and above and I always bet $2... Ok loh... dun go dun go loh... I also not reali very "gian" ... hehe....

Pictures:





The bag which manager got mi...



My Valentines' Day Pressie.. Love it alot!! Thank you Hubby!!

Kept for so long that most of the tix is already fading that some even left with a blank tix, Haha!!

18 June 2003 - The 1st Movie when we 1st met out. ( Movie: How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days)
*ps: we met in IRC chat, And the day we went out, he asked me to be his GF! And I accepted his proposal keke!!

See? the recepit already ma jiam blank paper liao...

2004/02/14 at Cine's Sakae Sushi



Hmmm... 4Years 8 Months.... consider not long also not short... But alot of memories....


GOnna orhorh liao... Nites frends!! Tata~~


Signing off,
Love still growing stronger each day... :)

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