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Thursday, February 07, 2008Y

Just Hope That He's Fine...

Phew~ Finally FiL is been discharge!!

SATURDAY
Cabbed back to Hougang alone as hubby went to play Mahjong at Gugu's House... and also I'm going for shopping with mum, and Hubby hate to go shopping so he din join us for shopping(luckily!) hehe... Reach hougang about 12+pm, and mum came back from work at about 2pm... den i hurried her to get herself ready den we Train-ed to Bugis there to pray at the "Godness of Mercy" temple... And know wad? cuz I always go there to 求签, and that day i wore my high cut boots, so after finish 求签 I wanted to wear back my boots so I asked mum to help me hold the 求签 thing and I place the 圣杯 thing in my pocket. DEn return the 求签 thing... den we went Bugis shop... after SOOOOOO LOng, den i realise i forgotten to return the 圣杯 thing! -faint- haha...

Went to shop at nearby the temple for mum's clothing... after that, went to Bugis street to shop my stuf... and i tell u loh... Mi n mum nearly faint there lah! cuz SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many people! den my mum keep complaining so many people, so i told her, no choice lah, things there is cheap and trendy, thus all youngster went there to buy clothings.. Plus CNY is around the corner mahz.. hehe... =P and it's reli so darn crowded loh! haiyo... Luckily Hubby din follow us to go shopping sia... If not, he sure KPKB loh... Walked for so long, bought a top which I've been looking for very long and finally that one suits me well and mum saw it's very nice and she also bought one for sister.. keke.... also bought 3 pairs of earrings for $5, a arcylic nail art kit.. cost me $60 loh! but after i bought it very happy loh.. hehe... but go home try out, reli very hard to do den very regret... :( and by then I'm reli so tired... den mum sugguest we cabbed to Chinatown since it's quite near... and when we got down at the CK department store there and cab fare was $10.30 loh!!! wah lao eh! so ex loh! cuz with all the surcharge and mum n I keep nag about the cabfare... haha... Reach CK was about 5+pm... den we bought thsoe New years decor, dad's shirt and pants, Hubby shirt, slipper for mi n mum (and I tried to wore it to SGH on Monday but It's "biting" my leg! *OUch!*), undergarment, tooth brush for hubby and I.... after all that it's already 7+, and Mum said she wanted to go 2nd floor to see those DVDs... and she was like, 这部戏好看leh, 那个也是不错hor? den 要买这个还是那个? and that time both of my legs was reali so tired till i almost cried out liao loh! den I just told her 你要看哪一部 den 就买loh... den end up she bought 2 Korean drama Series and a 梁志强 variety show for Dad to watch.. as i told her there's once MIL borrow from friends and we watch and reli darn funny... den she already made payment liao loh.. den nvm loh... she see here n there which she CONFIRM wun buy de but she gave lousy excuse, 我要看一下那个戏, 我想要买 leh, or 我一直在找这个戏... -faint-... den walk pass the electrical shop den she say she need to buy that blah blah... faint... But come to think of it, we are reli in common lah.. Cuz I'm also like her like that... (when I'm with Hubby) wahahaha.... after math we cabbed home as I'm reli tired...

and after like 5 years? I've never slept at my own house and that night hubby and I stay over night there... and Hubby came over at about 11pm... and because brother did not come back that night so mum ask us to sleep at brother's room... as we bought our lappy over, hubby played DOTA!!! till 2+am, and as hubby wanted us to sleep together at the same time, so I watched VCD till 2+am too... And brother's room got so many of VCDs and DVDs till I think he can open a VCDs DVDs rental shop liao! wanted to watch a few more VCD but I was simply TIRED! Zzzzz.....

SUNDAY
Woke up at about 10+AM.... planned to go for breakfast liao... den hubby's mobile rang... it's MIL.... she called to ask Hubby go home as FIL was very giddy.. As he had this giddy and headache problem for 2 weeks plus liao... and he reli cant take it liao, so hubby and I rush back home to send him to SGH A&E as his GP doctor instruction cuz he went to the GP for twice and it's not cure yet... reach SGH was about 12+pm... and doctor check and check , Finally about 4+pm doctor said FIL's Red Blood Cell is reli WAY TOO LOW, as normal male is like about 13-15, and the lowest is only 10 and FIL is 8.something only!! so doctor said it's best to let him stay in the hospital for observation... then we insist of letting him to stay and FIL keep wanted to go home... -faint- and about 7+pm the relatives came to visit him... nd that time FIL reli dun look good loh.. And it reali pain my heart... And as MIL have to go for work on the next day, so Hubby and I apply leave to go down and look after him...

MONDAY
Woke up at 6.30am and got ourself ready den left the house at 7am, reach SGH there was about 8.15am... den we walk to Chinatown for breakfast, and intially wanted to meet up with uncle Jimmy for breakfast together as he's only working nearby at Cantoment... But he has meeting so end up we met up in the late morning... and we packed breakfast for FIL as well cuz he's not uswed to the food in the hospital... went back,saw XUe Li ... Was shocked.. Cuz we thought she's working but end she and her hubby also took leave... end up everybody also on leave... hehe... Well, what to do? he's our dad.... den about 12+pm uncle jimmy came over to visit FIL.. den we talk n talk... MIss him so much! after that we all including FIL went down at canteen to La Kopi, den when we went down, bump on hubby's Grandfather! haha... He also came to visit FIL, and i keep said AH gong reli very clever loh! can all the way come SGH by himself, and not by Taxi ok? hehe... den hubby bought FIL for smoke as he a few days never smoke liao... But after 3-4 puff and throw away the whole stick as too long never smoke thus he felt giddy... haha... But uncle JImmy said to him, cannot stop smoking... (i was 0_0) cuz out of suddenly u stop smoking, ur body couldn't take it, especially FIL had been smoking for more than 30 years... but slowly cut down... But to me, i think if best, totally dun smoke is best for him... after math we went for Lunch at Chinatown with xue Li and hubby, he drove us to CK there and we ate the Dim Sum... it taste not bad , not ex for the dim sum... and FIL so funny, ask him what to eat we pack for him, he kept saying he's not hungry, cuz FIL's character is he dun like to bother other people even if it's his son or daughter... but end up we keep insist den he goes, dun wan, dun wan, dun wan.. Ok lah, ar boh u help mi packed rice.. -faint-... yah! my FIL is indeed a very cute one... hehe... doctor told us, there no possibility that his blood is so low, so there must be somewhere internal organ bleeding.. and that they have to go for scooping then they will know what had happen ( scooping= they put the thing into his throat and out on his anus) and they gave him the 泄药 to let him clear all his internal stuff, and he reli kept chiong toilet... and he wasn't suppose to eat from 5pm... until till after the scooping... (as we thought he will go for scooping in the MORNING!)

TUESDAY
Hubby was half day afternoon and I'm on full day... ANd i kept called xue li and hubby to ask if FIL had gone for the scooping le ma... the doctors kept tel us they will send him for scooping in the MORNING, but end up he 4+pm den go for scooping... ANd he's reli famished loh! can u imagine? from Monday 5+pm ALL THE WAY up till tuesday 4+pm CANNOT EAT?? Poor Papa.... And in the morning when i went to work i was reli so tired and worn out that i nearly fainted... and the whole morning i was so blur and stone that I told my colleagues not to talk to me, as I'm reli very stone and blur blur... but about afternoon I'm feeling much better as I took a nap in the bus while the whole company went for lunch at a place near Chinatown too! ( if we are on half day, den I can go SGH straight away after the lunch as it's quite near.) PIctures to be up later on the lunch ... And there's a patient, on monday the doctor told his relative that he couldn't discharge before CNY, den he's like Ki siao like that.... (as the room is only him and another 1 patient) he keep on go around to sleep here n there... and we guess maybe he got Depression or what, on Tuesday morning, he jump down (commit suicide) from there .... and went ICU... ANd end up, we think he's GONE... die liao.. haiz.. sad.... Ok, now back to FIL.... the scooping result is out, and they saw a thing on his 大肠, and it's cancer... when hubby told me over the phone i was WHAT THE???? but MIL they say it's reli very common for cancer, cuz hubby's grandma and grandpa has cancer a few years back, but now also cure liao... so the doctor also think there must be the gens..... and doctors said FIL have to go for scanning den will know this cancer is a 良性 or 恶性 wans... and if his cancer had spread to other organ...

WENESDAY
did not have to work, so MIL, hubby and I went SGH at 6+am... reach SGH 7++am, and XUe Li and her hubby was already there... about 9+am doctors came, and she told us his report, she said the tumor doesnt seems to be a good wan.. ( which i hold back my tears, and when I came out of the wards I reli broke out non-stop) and that have to go for the scanning den will determine how bad is that tumor..... and if possible let him discharge and return on 14 feb n operation on 15 feb... and finally at around 1pm den nurse said he can be discharge and we quickly pack up and get change until the nurse also , wah! so fast! haha....

I told Hubby let's not think so much and try to enjoy during this CNY festive althought this is in my 21 years life worst CNY...

爸爸, 你要坚持下去! 我们会一直在你身边陪着你! 我们陪你一起面对一切艰难！

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